five minute terrarium from a not-so-motherly plant mother

Headed Somewhere Blog - Terrarium TutorialThere are few places on this earth that make my heart pound a little faster, make me feel giddy like I’m a kid and make my mind overflow with inspiration: The very top of Angel’s Landing in Zion National Park, walking the avenues of Manhattan and this little succulent & cactus garden that sits just 2 minutes from my home. I just can’t stay away. As I walk around each of the 9 green houses stock piled with the most beautiful plants I have ever seen, I can’t help but feel like Mother Nature herself. The first time I visited this place, I literally SKIPPED up and down the aisles. The next day, I paid another visit… and then the day after. Not sure what it is about it, it just feels welcoming, homey, and for some strange reason, I feel I am doing something wholesome and productive just wandering the gardens… perhaps I am. I am nurturing my spirit. I leave happier than when I came.

On this particular day, it was cold, (as cold as California weather permits…) and drizzling here and there. Perfect day, in my opinion, to get out of the house! With the weather warming up, I had to take advantage of this chilly day and put on Ezzy’s Pan Pantaloni Vest. It KILLS me with its ears and the pantaloons… oh, too much. I am in love.

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I have had this terrarium for MONTHS now, it has been sitting sad and empty on my dresser… just waiting for little plants to house. The day has finally come! So I thought I’d share my little how-to… because I’d like my little new friends to LIVE… against all odds… because heaven knows when it comes to mothering plants, I am no good.

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pea sized pebbles

succulents + cactuses


glass container

organic soil

*you will also need activated charcoal if your container is enclosed.

Terrarium Tutorial - Headed Somewhere BlogTerrarium Tutorial - Headed Somewhere Blog1. Place small pebbles in bottom of glass container for drainage. Use about 1-1.5 inches.

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2. Break up moss and place over pebbles.

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Terrarium Tutorial - Headed Somewhere Blog4. Start from back of container, working your way forward. Dig a small hole for each, making sure there is enough room for the roots. Pack dirt around plant for stability.

Terrarium Tutorial - Headed Somewhere Blog5. Place moss, rocks, or other decorative treasures in your new terrarium!

There you have it! That easy.

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Cactuses and succulents don’t need to be watered much. I usually give them a little spritz with a water bottle every couple weeks and they seem to be doing great!


I just have to leave you with this video, because these little kiddos might be the cutest ever with their warrior face paint and head wraps. I’m thinking of dressing Ez in his pantaloons and vest and painting his face like this next time we hit up Target. Is that weird? I don’t care, I’m doing it.


Good Days Ahead

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Ezra has been all out of sorts lately and I feel like I am losing my sanity. He is doing some major teething, poor thing has had it rough for about a week. We have been spending a lot of time outside, it seems that is the only thing that brings him comfort these days. For me, every day seems to be the same and drags on forever. I know it won’t last, things will get better. I have to keep reminding myself how he usually is: a sweet, cuddly, loving little boy. There are more good days than bad and as my Dad always says, “this too shall pass.” Great days ahead. I can feel it. Send happy thoughts and good vibes our way!


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Lavender + Tea Tree Avocado Mask // Young Living Essential Oils

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For a long time I was fascinated by essential oils and the claims people made about the benefits they received from using them. There was part of me that badly wanted to believe that these amazing oils were miracle workers… that they were a magic potions that would make me beautiful, give me superhero muscles and make my baby sleep. I’m here to tell you it has not happened overnight. But I SERIOUSLY believe in these little bottles and that they hold a lot more goodness and “magical” power than I previously gave them credit for.

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I received 11 oils in my starter kit. My favorite is the Thieves oil, a blend created by Young Living. It smells like rich cinnamon deliciousness and will take you away to a place filled with spice cake, red hots and honey, not to mention, it will seriously boost your immune system and help you to fight off any bugs that may be lingering. 

After diffusing each and every one of the Young Living oils that came in the starter kit over the course of 2 days, mixing them in my water, diluting them for use as cleaner, rubbing them on my feet, my baby’s feet, my husband’s feet and my neighbors feet, I decided the only next logical thing would be to put them on my face. I created a mask with ingredients that are known to help heal and moisturize your skin.

1/2 Avocado

1/2 c. Organic Kefir Yogurt

1 Tablespoon Apple Cider Vinegar

3 drops Young Living Tea Tree Oil

3 drops Young Living Lavender Oil

Smash up your avo, mix in the yogurt, vinegar and your oils. Mix well and apply to face for 7-10 minutes. Rinse thoroughly with warm water.

Headed Somewhere BlogThe vinegar acts as a toner and it is effective in unblocking pores and keeps your skin from becoming too dry. Tea Tree Oil is commonly used for treating problem skin and conditions such as acne. Lavender acts as an anti-inflammatory and helps to reduce the appearance of scars and speeds up the healing process.

There is something so natural about using oils in my everyday… and my house smells amazing. To learn more or to order your own check them out HERE!!

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mommy-hood and other happenings

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While I am writing: I am sitting in front of a blasting heater, (I am always cold). Clay is asleep on my shoulder… I can feel the snores comin’, and my eyes are heavy. Ezra is asleep in his crib, but it’s around that time of night where he wakes up, cries, I go in there rub his back, and he falls back asleep. I am waiting… tick tock. It’s like clock-work.

Time seems to be flying by at the speed of light, but at the same time the days drag on for what seem like an eternity. How can this be? My little one is taking his first steps. Tiny ones here and there. He gets so excited, looks at Clay and I for reassurance, and applause of course. I know my days of having a clingy, needy child who is constantly raising his arms at me are nearing an end. There is a part of me that is thankful beyond belief. I can’t pack this kid around forever! And the other part feels a little heartbroken, my little baby isn’t such a baby anymore! 

Headed Somewhere BlogI just quit my accounting job to be able to stay home with Ezra. I have so many other projects going on, so  I can’t really say I quit working, it actually seems to be a lot more work being home and hustlin’. Accounting doesn’t seem so hard next to mommy hood. By the time 5:00 rolls around I am practically begging for mercy. Clay walks through the door like my saving grace, my hero. Ugh, guys. I gotta be honest, some days are just… UGHHH. hard. But then Ezra crawls over to my lap while I read him his favorite books. He turns the pages at just the right time and listens so intently, it melts me and everything, once again, is perfect in the world.

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This house is starting to feel like a home. I am really, truly in love with it. It feels so teeny, tiny, cozy, perfect for us. We are always cuddled around each other anyway, I don’t think we’ll ever need that much space. We just like each other too much. 

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Just received this lovely little wall weave in the mail from LoveandLoom. It is such a perfect little piece, I am so in love. Each little corner is coming together slowly but surely. Always on the lookout for inspiration! Will be sharing my fave inspirations as of late aaaaand also a “home tour” of sorts soon! :)

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a letter to ezra: one woman army

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The moment you were born I felt an overwhelming sense of empowerment, responsibility and an intense instinct to protect you. You were mine, and I was going to do anything to keep you safe, feeling secure and loved. I knew it wouldn’t be easy. There are still days that reduce me to tears… we cry a lot together; and a lot of time I feel I am failing. But you are oh, so forgiving, you always make those hard days and feelings of inadequacy disappear with your cuddles and love pinches at the end of each day. The amount of love I have for you is more than I have ever felt. The need to be your mama, your protector, is stronger than any other pull in my life. You are it baby boy. You are now my reason for living, my reason for waking up in the morning, (usually much earlier than I’d like), and my reason for trying to be a better person.HeadedSomewhere Blog #unitedinmotherhood

HeadedSomewhere Blog #unitedinmotherhoodI truly believe you have something in you that is so good, so powerful, that you will make this world better than before you came. I see your potential. You are so smart, so sweet, so good natured. As a mother, I can only hope I will be able to guide you in a way that your true self will shine and your goodness be apparent. I have no doubt you will do something incredible with this life of yours. 



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our grass is pretty green

Headed Somewhere Headed Somewhere Headed Somewhere Headed Somewhere Headed Somewhere Headed Somewhere Headed SomewhereI have been all weepy about not having snow or seasons this winter. I longed for those snow days in Utah: laying in bed with hot tea, watching the snow fall, so calming and peaceful. I am so nostalgic it’s sick! I tend to forget about the ice scraping, snow shoveling and slick road driving stuff. That’s why we moved! REMEMBER?! But there is just something so magical about winter to me… I don’t think I would mind moving back. 😉 (Grass is always greener). So yesterday was such a nice day, we decided to make a pit-stop to feel the sun beating on our bare legs… in January. Sometimes that last minute detour is what it takes to realize our grass is pretty green already.

Ezra played in the sand for the first time. He was so timid at first, making sure not to get one tiny speck on his hands. But by the time we were leaving, his hands, hair and diaper full were full of sand. :)

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you are enough, my friend.

My relationship with social media is similar to my relationship with my long time high school boyfriend. We were on, we were off, I was in “love”, I never wanted to look at him again. Sometimes things were pretty good and I thought we made a pretty great team, and other times he would put everything I had ever given him in a box, bring it to my house and run over it with his car while I watched. (That’s where it ended. Very symbolic and artsy, really… Oh! The drama.)

My Facebook days have long since passed. We broke up years ago for reasons I don’t need to discuss here. But Instagram is my love and my nemesis, my friend and my foe. I can say this knowing I am not the only one. Studies show that when we receive a “like” or “comment” on one of our Instagram posts, there is a small burst of endorphins that run through our body. “Ooo! Someone likes me!”, “someone whom I have never met thinks I am pretty!”, “someone approves of my breakfast!” It’s a fact people. A sad fact. When we post something and nobody “likes” it, we fall into a deep dark hole and only a quart of Ben & Jerry’s and a Sandra Bullock movie can bring us out. (That last part isn’t verified by scientists, but it happens.)

So here is the bone I’m pickin’ with Instagram, (and any other form of social media for that matter, Instagram just happens to be my drug of choice.) It will kill you. You will die a slow and sad death if not managed correctly. And managing with complete and utter indifference is a very hard thing to do. There will always be someone who outdoes your posts; someone whose life looks MUCH more put together than yours. They are up at 7 a.m. making lemon ricotta pancakes, #organic, in silk pajamas for their 4 children, #blessed, while each one of them is dressed in designer clothing and playing together quietly by the open fire. #dancingtosinatra #isntlifeperfect. Well that’s the thing, it’s not perfect, and that’s not real. I have found myself obsessing and comparing myself and my life to THIS! Thinking I need this, I don’t do that, last but not least, why don’t as many people like ME?!

It’s sad you guys. Really sad. But I want to be real with you. I have been that person sulking in the corner thinking my life doesn’t compare. But guess what, my life is my life and it’s perfect and fine just the way it is. I have laundry up to my eyeballs because our laundry machine has been broken for a month! I can’t even remember the last time I made a home-cooked meal and I RARELY do my hair. I brush it like 3 times per week. And that’s fine. Because that’s me, that’s us. And when I’m not busy comparing what we have to what I THINK other people have, we’re pretty happy. I wouldn’t mind a new washing machine though. #openfordonations

I read somewhere a short essay by author Judd Apatow …. And by “somewhere” I mean a chipotle paper to-go bag, (See? My lack of home-cooking brought me to this brilliant epiphany. Winning already.) “When I was in high school there were 500 people in my graduating class. Out of those 500 people I had two best friends and five other real friends. So I had a true connection with seven people and did not have a true connection with 493 people. Now I create stories and hope that 500 out of 500 people will appreciate the work. That is impossible. I don’t love most things I see or listen to, why should they? The truth is I should be happy with seven people being touched or amused by my work. I think it is okay to accept the fact that most people won’t get you. We don’t need to like each other so much. We need to be kind and respect each other.”

I have 2,850 followers on Instagram, and guess how many people called me on my birthday? 3. Guess how many people I meet for lunch on a regular basis? Um… probably 2. And the number of people I keep in touch with via text or phone call is around 12. I don’t think anyone on the face of this planet has more than 30 “real life, I see your face all the time” friends. I mean, that would just be exhausting. Unless you’re Taylor Swift, then maybe you have more.

you are worth it - my bone to pick with InstagramSo here’s the bottom line. I just want to let you know that you are enough. You are beautiful, important, special and worthwhile. Even if you can’t take a decent photo if your life depended on it, maybe you aren’t a photographer by trade! Who cares! You are fabulous and wonderful.

Am I going to be quitting social media anytime soon? I don’t think so. Here’s the problem. I am a sucker for that silly little app. I love taking photos of my little one, I love seeing what people had for breakfast… I truly do, it’s a funny thing… and those FILTERS! I can’t stop editing photos, it’s an unruly obsession. But the comparison needs to stop. Like yesterday. I need to be greater and better than what the numbers on Instagram tell me. I need to stop beating myself up. I am me, and I am enough.

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a gifting guide // bring on Christmas cheer!

Headed Somewhere Gifting GuideMadness is happening at my house. We are still surrounded by boxes, our mattress is on the floor and we have been spending our evenings sitting on the rug in the living room because we are still without a sofa. Christmas is nowhere to be found except for the one sad reindeer candle holder obscurely placed on the mantle that managed to make its way out of the Christmas box somehow. It’s not even holding any candles, poor thing. Random knick-knacks and do-dads are scattered around the house without any place to go… (that’s what you get when there is no organization in your packing procedures.)

ANYWAY, with the season fast approaching sans Christmas-like feelings; I have decided that I needed to lift my Christmas spirits by creating a gift guide for him, her, and the little one in your life. Because hey, there’s nothing that makes it feel more like Christmas than swiping that credit card, right?! Just kidding, that’s terrible. Trying again: Because there’s nothing that makes it feel more like Christmas than finding that perfect gift for that special someone.  That’s a little better.

So this is for all you procrastinators and dawdlers. I’ve got the solution to your gift-giving stupor. Yes, there are only 9 days until Christmas, but 9 days is just enough to put in that last minute order online and get your gifts here on time! I’ve put together the ultimate list of go-to gifts for the special lady, main man and the little one in your life. So you’re welcome.Headed Somewhere Gift Guide

For Her

Vrai&Oro Ring // Zara Ethnic Short Coat // Agate Bookends // Humble Hilo Weekender // Gardening Tools // Cheese of the month Club // Daniel Wellington Watch // Real Simple Subscription

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For Him

Brookstone Pocket Projector // Patagonia Arbor Backpack // Pendleton Camp Blanket // The Tipping Point – Malcolm Gladwell // Coin Counter (this sounds silly, but this is one of Clay’s favorite gifts I’ve given him. We’ve accumulated almost $80 dollars the past year! haha) // Event Tickets: favorite sports team, concert or the ballet perhaps?! American Buffalo Print // Baxter Shaving Kit

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Plush Panda // Land of Nod Teepee // Rocking Lamb // Gap DUDE Beanie // Wildbird Sling // Young One Apparel Sweater // Tickets to the animal park, theme park, or museum // Wooden Ride-On

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Wear That Bebe!! // Wildbird

WildbirdAs a new mama it can be so overwhelming to know which baby products are ABSOLUTELY necessary and which are the “fluff”. For example: I thought we absolutely needed a portable changing pad. Nope. I usually end up changing him wherever is convenient, my lap, the seat of the car, trunk … you get creative. I was sure I would need about a million baby seats, one for every room in the house. This one vibrates! That one bounces! We have one that sways side to side! Now my home is scattered with so many baby chairs I’m not quite sure what to do with them. A bottle warmer, baby wipe warmer, baby bath… the list goes on and on.

My Wildbird ring sling, on the other hand, is something I didn’t think I needed from the get-go. Boy was I wrong! I honestly couldn’t live without it. It’s my go-to when Ezra is fussy or tired while we’re out n’ about or even at home. He will be content or even asleep right away. I have used it to nurse him while on the go. The extra “tail” left over is a perfect nursing cover.

I have been using my Wildbird sling since he was just tiny, and now that he’s older he loves being able to sit on my hip to see what I’m doing! Not to mention he is the most cuddly little guy! (I hope he stays this way forever!)

WildbirdNow let’s back it up with some cold hard facts:

Carried babies cry less. In a study published by the Journal of Pediatrics, researchers found that babywearing for three hours a day reduced infant crying by 43 percent overall and 54 percent during evening hours*. Babies thrive through touch!

Proper babywearing helps promote optimal brain, hip, spine, eye, social and emotional development. When a baby is worn in the sling he/she becomes aware of the wearer’s movements. This stimulation helps baby to regulate his/her own physical responses and exercises baby’s vestibular system, which controls balance.

Research has also shown that premature babies who are touched and held gain weight faster and are healthier than babies who are not**. Babywearing has so many benefits for not only baby but the wearer as well. Wearing your baby has shown to reduce stress hormones in new mamas which help fight postpartum depression. The wearer has two hands free which enables the wearer to get chores done, shop, or play with other children.

WildbirdQ: Why should I use a sling ring?

A: Ring slings are the easiest way to wear your baby (no wrapping or buckling). After a few times of practice, getting your baby in and out of the sling will become second nature. See our tutorials.

Q: Why is the sling made out of linen?

A: Linen is made from flax. Flax is one of the strongest natural fibers. It is three times stronger than cotton. Linen is a woven fabric that never loses it shape. It is also highly recommended for children and adults due to a non-allergic feature which makes it a great microclimate for skin. In addition, linen is the most suitable fabric for hot summer climates because of it’s cooling and refreshing effect. On the other hand it has a warming effect in winter. How? Flax absorbs sudden temperature changes and has outstanding moisture absorbency. Linen also protects skin from harmful ultraviolet radiation.

Q: Are ring slings safe?

A: Yes! Our greatest concern is you and your baby’s safety. Wildbird slings are made from the highest quality aluminum rings available. Each tested to ensure your child’s safety. Use the sling properly and please study and practice the tips on the safety page.

Q: Are your rings certified?

A: Yes, our rings and manufacturing process are RoHS compliant. The rings are made from seamless aluminum which is heavy metal and toxin free. General certification of compliance with the CPSC/CPSIA can be made able by request.

Q: What do I do with the tail end of the sling?

A : You can simply leave the tail hanging or wrap it around the rings to get it out of the way. The tail can also be used as a nursing cover or sunshade.

Q: Is the sling portable?

A : Yes, it can easily fit inside a diaper bag or purse.

Q. Where are your slings made?

A : They are made in Salt Lake City, Utah.

So cuddle up close to that little babe!! It’s good for your baby and good for your soul. :)

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** FAQ’s and research data taken from Wildbird website.

the one that didn’t get away.

Processed with VSCOcam with n1 presetSo it FINALLY FINALLY happened. After being broken hearted 5-6 times, “the one” finally came along.  At times we felt we were going through a bad breakup, we thought it was love, “why didn’t anyone want us!?” We even wrote notes to sellers BEGGING to pick us. I felt like a desperate girlfriend begging to be taken back. Depressing, I know. After much defeat, true love came along and swept us off our feet. It’s a little tiny bungalow amongst raspberry bushes and tall, tall trees. It’s got a huge deck and tons of lawn to run around on. A little swing hanging from a branch and a dilapidated play house that needs a little TLC. It has 3 raised garden beds and 3 egg laying chickens. We have lots of plans for this little home, it needs some work… but we are willing to put in the effort to make it ours.Processed with VSCOcam with n1 presetProcessed with VSCOcam with a6 preset

We were put through the ringer in this house hunt, but in hindsight, I am SO glad we didn’t get any of the houses we had put offers on. I believe in fate. This little house was meant for us.

This weekend we’re pulling up carpet, prepping for hardwood floors and fixing some windows. We are NOT handy people. Wish us luck.Processed with VSCOcam with a6 presetP.S. On a side note: Ezra started CRAWLING this week!!! So exciting! He’s really on the go, wants to play with and touch everything! Crazy how time flies.

P.S.S. How do you guys feel about WHITE hardwood? Do any of you have really light hardwood in your home? This is what I’m leaning toward… a little hesitant.

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